I just wanted to share my journey in the USA, hoping it might inspire and motivate others—especially those whose kids are studying or planning to move overseas.
From Struggles to Stability
In 2001, I arrived in the USA as an alien with no connections, no support system, and nothing to fall back on. By 2003, I had lost everything—my business, job, and even my marriage. My first wife, who came from one of India’s wealthiest families, divorced me, and I found myself struggling emotionally and financially.
But in 2004, things changed. I met and married my current wife—an Indian woman who became my true partner in every sense. She not only gave me the emotional stability I needed but also taught me the art of investments, which ultimately transformed our financial future.
Lessons from My Journey
1.Choose the Right Life Partner
• My biggest lesson was that compatibility matters more than wealth.
• My first marriage struggled because of differences in financial background, expectations, and lifestyle.
• My current wife is my equal partner—we compete, challenge, and grow together.
• A strong partner builds you up, and that’s what changed my life.
2 Invest in Real Estate & Build Wealth
• 2006: Bought my first property.
• 2012: Bought the second property.
• 2018: Used equity from the first two to buy two more.
• 2023: Paid off all five properties—living debt-free.
Why real estate? It provides stability, appreciates over time, offers tax benefits, and generates passive income. Unlike stocks or crypto, which can be unpredictable, real estate has consistently provided us with financial security.
3.Live Below Your Means & Plan Smartly
• We never ate outside for the first five years.
• We never bought brand-new cars. Instead, we started small and upgraded as needed.
• Saved aggressively to invest in real estate rather than spending on luxuries.
4.Teach Kids Financial Independence
• My son works while in college, earning through a swimming pool job and his own music library.
• My 13-year-old daughter runs a mini bakery, saving every penny she earns.
• Kids need to learn the value of money early. Many in the USA inherit properties but fail to manage them. I’m ensuring my kids understand taxes, property management, and financial discipline.
The Power of Smart Living: Producing, Consuming, and Investing Wisely
In my journey of financial independence, I’ve learned that being a prosumer (both a producer and a consumer) is the key to sustainable success. Instead of just consuming, I focus on producing value—whether through smart investments, renewable energy, or leveraging financial tools.
How We Save and Invest Smartly
Buying Smart: Low Risk, High Reward
• We bought properties in tier form (means we bought small to bigger in each buy so we got best rate as primary home in each buy instead of investment buy where you have to pay 25%), getting them at a lower price and maximizing appreciation.
• The strategy is simple: Buy low, sell high, and build equity rather than paying rent.
Powering Our Life with Solar Energy
• Instead of relying on expensive electricity, we installed solar panels that generate power for our home. Also in USA, solar gets you 30% tax rebate in tax.
• Solar energy fuels our two Tesla cars, making transportation nearly free.
• The result? Lower bills, more savings, and complete energy independence.
Tip in usa electric cars get discounts so first car got me $7000 federal and no sales tax while second car got me $4000 credit and on top of it , solar power. Think ?
Maximizing Tesla’s Benefits
• Though a luxury car, my Tesla Model S offers free lifetime charging and an unlimited media package—saving us $300 per month ($3,600 per year).
• Over 10 years, that’s $36,000 saved—offsetting a significant portion of the car’s cost.
• By looking beyond the sticker price and calculating long-term savings, I made an investment, not just a purchase.
Keeping Liabilities Low
• We avoid spending on items that depreciate quickly or turn into liabilities.
• Every expense is weighed against its long-term value—if it doesn’t generate wealth or save money, we reconsider it.
The Power of Goal-Setting and Family Alignment
In our home, we believe in the Law of Attraction. Whatever my wife and I aim for, we write it down and place it on the refrigerator. This way, our entire family aligns with our vision.
• Example: We want our kids to marry within our culture and community. By keeping it visible, it becomes a shared goal that everyone naturally respects.
• Rewards System: When we achieve a milestone, we celebrate—whether through travel or meaningful donations.
• Spiritual and Cultural Connection: Even when I travel, I share my experiences with my family to reinforce the power of giving, faith, and staying connected to our Indian roots.
Recommended Books for Financial and Personal Growth
Prosumer Power – Understand how producing what you consume leads to financial freedom.
The Magic of Thinking Big – Teaches the importance of dreaming big and planning accordingly.
The Law of Attraction – Explains how focusing on your goals brings them into reality.
Final Takeaway
Being a prosumer means controlling your finances, investments, and lifestyle choices wisely. Produce what you consume, invest in assets, and keep liabilities low. This approach has helped me live debt-free, raise financially responsible kids, and enjoy financial security—and I hope it helps you too!
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Final Takeaway
I’m sharing this to remind everyone—especially those sending their kids abroad—that financial education and the right life choices matter. Teach them to marry wisely, invest early, and live smartly.
If this story inspires you, feel free to share it. Wishing you all the best in your own journey!
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